How many 18 year old young adults out there are truly leaders today? Not
many and this is a fact! Why do I say this? Well, first of all, I am the
product of this education system and from the experience I had in the
army, all I met was mostly failed leadership. How many 18 year old young
adults out there are truly leaders today? Not many and this is a fact! Why
do I say this? Well, first of all, I am the product of this education
system and from the experience I had in the army, all I met was mostly
failed leadership. Luckily, the government has taken steps and actions to
remedy the situation through new integrated programs to foster leadership
in schools and away from rote-learning. With time, perhaps we will be
learning such skills more effectively. However, it's because of my
negative experiences with bad leaders that make me wonder:" How can an 18
year old young adult really learn about leadership?" and "What are some of
the fundamentals of good leadership an 18 year old must have?"
The
purpose of my title as well as the opening statement serves to capture
your attention and to get you to read on since a typical 18 year old young
adult do get turn off with such topics. I hope that you continue to read
this article and take at least one idea to implement in your life.
What is meant by leadership? American Management Consultant, Peter F.
Drucker has this to say," Leadership is not magnetic personality-that can
just as well be a glib tongue. It is not making friends and influencing
people-that is flattery. Leadership is lifting a person's vision to higher
sights, the raising of a person's performance to a higher standard, the
building of a personality beyond its normal limitations." This is the true
picture of leadership and now let's takes a look at some of the details.
A leader has to have a team. Not any team with members he randomly
picks. This only happens in school where the teacher assigns you your team
members. A true leader learns to make his own decisions in choosing the
members he required in his team. By learning to do so, he forms a
mastermind team, a team whose vision and values aligned with the leader.
It requires courage, skill, experience, good EQ as well as intelligence to
assemble and maintain such a team. From selecting the right members to
planning to execution of the plans, it requires hard work and effort. In
this team ...
A leader is foremost a servant. He has to first give then receive. The
notion of giving solely is so foreign to many of us that we are constantly
into the W.I.T.F.M (What's in it for me ) and R.O.I ( Return of Investment
) that we fail to give a little at all. Why are we so afraid to give that
little bit? Don't we realize that there is a universal law - "The Law of
Compensation" like the law of gravity which governs us 24/7? This law
states that you will always be compensated for your efforts and for your
contributions, whatever it is, however much or however little. Don't
always ask for something in return. Have faith in the law and do give more
than you receive.
So what does the leader actually give? He gives encouragement; he is
motivated by the wish to empower his members, to bring out the best of his
mastermind team. He is supportive to every team member and never
ridicules, condemns or ignores ideas contributed. How else can he
encourage, he does so by delegating, and this empowers them for the role
of the leader is to nurture his followers into leaders. Why is this
consider empowerment? Johann Wolfgang von Goethe explains, "Treat people
as if they were what they ought to be, and you help them become what they
are capable of being." The greatest ability of the leader is recognizing
the ability in others and encourages it."
To lead is also to show the way by going in advance. A leader has to
lead by example. He has to take the first step. This inspires great
confidence, courage and strength in the team. A team performs best with
such a leader. So where does the leader lead his followers to? To places
where they wish to go, but wouldn't go alone. This is what a true leader
does, to inspire his team not only with words but with action, meaningful
action that requires courage.
There are many qualities of a good leader which I cannot write about in
such a short article. If you truly desire to be a good leader, take action
to become one, start by reading a book on leadership, any small step
helps. To conclude, heed the timeless principle of leadership by American
business philosopher Jim Rohn, "The challenge of leadership is to be
strong, but not rude; be kind, but not weak; be bold, but not a bully; be
thoughtful, but not lazy; be humble, but not timid; be proud, but not
arrogant; have humor, but without folly."
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Extraordinary Results Over and Over Again?'
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