Executives with a strong Emotional Quotient (EQ),as well as a strong
Intelligence Quotient (IQ), are quickly becoming the leaders who
ultimately make the best decisions and lead the most satisfying lives.
These ten practical techniques will support you in bringing new life and
amazing opportunities to you every day, both personally and
professionally.
(1) Become aware of your own emotions and how they impact others. Make a
list of your strengths and your limitations when the heat is on. If you
are quick to anger or curtness, take a personal “time out” before
communicating with an employee, colleague, friend, or family member.
(2) Display honesty, authenticity, and trustworthiness in all actions.
Before you go to sleep at night, ask yourself this question: “Did I live
according to what I know is right for me and for others?”
(3) Be flexible. Your ability to adapt to a quickly changing world and to
the changing needs of your employees/colleagues/family will set you apart
from the crowd when it comes to being an effective leader.
(4) Include humor and laughter in both work and play. Studies reveal that
laughter is the most contagious of all emotions. Once a person hears
laughter, a positive chain reaction spreads through the group, resulting
in an increase in productivity.
(5) Develop an attitude of optimism. Find the positive in every situation,
even when something negative has happened. Document these positive
comments in a journal, and speak them out loud to three people. You will
eventually develop an attitude of optimism, which will have a positive
impact on others.
(6) Develop empathy by grasping the feelings of others and seeing their
perspective before you make a decision. This will make you approachable,
and others will learn quickly that you care about them and want to hear
what they have to say.
(7) Cultivate rich and rewarding relationships with employees outside of
work. Host one social function each month, and take this time to get to
know your employees and their families on a very personal level.
(8) Develop a democratic leadership style: one that is based on
collaboration, teamwork, active listening, conflict management, and
influence.
(9) Be dedicated to a high level of achievement. Your drive to improve
performance and to meet high standards of excellence will set the tone for
success for you and your company.
(10) Be devoted to recognizing and meeting the needs of your followers,
clients, and customers. They are the future of your company, so
communicate with them regularly and often.
About the Author
This article was written and submitted by Bea Fields. Bea is a Business
Coach, Consultant, Trainer, and Public Speaker. Her area of expertise is
that of Environmental Design and Leadership Development for Executives,
Managers, Small Business Owners, and Political Leaders. She may be
contacted at bea@nonmanipulativeseduction.com or visited on the web at
www.nonmanipulativeseduction.com